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It’s a different world from when we grew up – you know the time where you would have to talk on the phone, the phone that was attached to a cord that went into a jack on the wall? When connecting with girls, they’d want to talk on the phone for hours? They’d never let you get off the phone, they wanted to just be on the phone even when there was no more conversation? If you were like me, i’d just fall asleep on the phone, letting her spaz out at me as i then would hang up the phone. That day is long gone my friends. Even the early days of cell phone use, girls would call on the phone, those days are gone too. It’s texting now. You’re phone has now been reduced to a few lines of text in order to communicate effectively. Girls love this method. Why? Because they can satisfy their need for attention by carrying on multiple conversations at one time, and they are.
Hot super flirts will text like crazy. Who are they texting? Their girl friends? Maybe, but most likely Beta orbiters that they seek attention from. They’ll gladly flirt over text with bunch of dudes at one time, just to keep her over inflated girl ego in the stratosphere. Super flirts are usually the most insecure – they know their hot, but their inability to land an alpha, or keep one, has contorted this ego in her neither regions of her brain, to make her constantly seek out attention – more than her more secure female counter parts. Most of these girls are in their early 20′s, most asian girls are like this too. There is an incessant need to constantly feel wanted. But rarely can you actually connect with these girls.
In order to successfully connect with a super flirt on text, you need to keep your responses short. If you respond, respond with minimal words. Example:
Her: What you doin?
You: why?
Her: Lol, cuz i wanna know silly ;p
You: ok
Her: You’re funny ;p
You: yup
Her: I went to… (blah blah blah)
you: (no response) or ‘my place, at 8′
That’s how you respond to superflirts. You will notice if they are seeking a lot of attention they will just keep telling you crap that you dont care about, what you text has nothing to do with it – they are trying to seduce you into flirting with them and making them feel desired. Don’t. Because they’ll be satisfied with this txt convo, and you’ll be pining away about what it all meant. The other case is they might actually be interested, but you still need to play this game, by making yourself unavailable through text you are giving her the option to either call you, or meet up. There is no txt play. (this can all change after you bang her of course, sexting can be a great way to get her worked up before a bang).
The other spectrum is slightly older women (some younger girls with shit going on) who don’t text conversations. They use it as its meant to be used, quick short messages to get across details, hook up times, or quick thank you’s. Girls or guys with shit going on in their lives don’t have time to txt back and forth for hours. Using the above scenario of minimalist text is best. This one’s easy. Tell her when and where you are hooking up. Do not seek more conversation through text with this girl. Actually with any girl, it shows neediness.
The current power that girls like to throw around is the ‘last text’ game. They will text you, you have a brief or a long convo on texts, but they say something that requires a response, one in which they know you will respond, and then the phone will go dead. They won’t respond. Even if it’s a direct question that only requires a yes, or no. They won. You are the chaser, they now know you’re just gonna be their little lap dog there to give them meaningless attention whenever they want it. What you want doesn’t matter. So never respond too much. When a girl is texting you, unless it’s a direct question, don’t respond until at least an hour later. Then do so with as few words as possible.
I don’t really know what goes on in these girls pretty little warped minds when texting, but this has been deduced from a lot of field work that i have put it. I’ve done both good and bad. You will literally be shocked at how powerful minimal text and long delays in responses are. I know you’re excited to talk to that girl you like. But you HAVE to treat her like an annoying cat trying to get you to play. Brush it aside and move on with your day.
One other note, an important one. If you feel like a text turned the girl off, or you offended them, or you feel like you need to explain something, when she doesnt respond, absolutely never text back. In fact if you are the last texter, you should wait at least 3 days before re-iniating texting, and do not reference the last convo at all.
I’m going to tell you something that i hope you will take with you into the field. All girls want a guy to be indifferent to her. All of them. Once you are in a relationship that will change to a degree, but when courting a girl, she wants you to be aloof and not all that interested. She’s afraid of you getting attached, because if she wants to stop the relationship and you are attached it will be harder for her. So always respond to any flake, or change in plans, or comments she makes with this: Cool. or That’s cool. And then leave it at that. They will find this attitude sexy. They don’t want to feel kept or strapped down. They want to have it all. You’re indifference to what they are doing will actually make them come to you. And usually its for free sex.
